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- How to Safely Exit an Abusive Relationship
- Victim safety and support
- Making a safety plan
That is the insidious aspect of abuse; it causes you to question your own best judgment. It may be time to start planning your exit.
Every first step begins with a plan. While putting your plan together follow the rules below. Keep yourself safe until you can get out of the relationship for good. Now it is time to set your plan in action. You have to have somewhere to go, a way to support yourself so that your new life gets off to a secure proper beginning. Below are things you need to have in place in order to move on and rebuild your life. Now that you are out or, he is out there are steps you need to take to protect yourself and your new life.
How to Safely Exit an Abusive Relationship
The risk management plan should provide professional support to all those at risk, reducing risk of harm and repeat victimisation. MARACs should also improve agency accountability and support for staff involved in high-risk cases. It establishes recognised procedures for disclosing information to enable new or existing partners of previously violent individuals to make informed choices about how and whether they take forward that relationship. The scheme contributes to risk management by enabling victims to find out from an early stage about the potential for risk from prospective or new partners.
This allows the victim to:.
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It also enables the police to analyse patterns of requests under the scheme. This makes it possible for them to identify individuals who may be as yet unknown to the police but are attracting a volume of requests under the right to ask entry route which may indicate a cause for concern. It may also make it easier for them to identify serial perpetrators.
- 2. Set up a way to communicate privately.
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Forces should ensure they have a system to actively manage and monitor known serial perpetrators of domestic abuse and other perpetrators with a history of domestic abuse. Whether this is implemented by domestic abuse specialists, through neighbourhood or local policing teams, or through multi-agency arrangements, it should be regularly reviewed at senior officer level.
Victim safety and support
Some forces have domestic abuse perpetrator specialists. These act as a single point of contact for a perpetrator, similar to an offender manager, and work with the person to divert and disrupt their behaviour. See also domestic abuse and the intelligence process, using intelligence to target perpetrators. Crime prevention officers or their local equivalent should be made available to victims of domestic abuse to provide advice on home security. Where victims of domestic abuse choose to remain in their home, the police should support them to do so and assist in making them safe.
Target-hardening measures and improvements in home security, including smoke alarms, burglar alarms and new lighting, can reassure victims and their families and help to protect them from further abuse. Such devices may also provide evidence to support further police action. A referral to the fire service can be useful if it is considered that there is a risk of arson. A fire safety survey checks safety in the home and assesses escape routes.
Cocoon watch schemes request the help and support of neighbours, family and relevant agencies in protecting the victim by contacting the police immediately if further incidents occur. A cocoon watch identifying the victim is only implemented with the informed consent of the victim. It is possible to have limited cocoon watch without consent where the victim is not named, eg, an awareness-raising leaflet drop in the neighbourhood which states that domestic abuse is taking place in the area. In some cases, and in consultation with the victim, it may be appropriate to make the suspect aware of the action.
- 1. Assess your financial situation;
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Police watch schemes provide a visible police presence to both the victim and the suspect. It involves regular police patrols within the vicinity of reported incidents. In some situations police officers may visit to check on the safety of the victim. Team members can be key sources of information provided by, or obtained from, the community.
The information provided can assist in ongoing risk identification processes and in longer-term risk management.
NPTs can also use community information to identify domestic abuse offenders and those who present a current and significant risk to others. Where necessary, the teams should be given relevant information enabling them to contribute to the MARAC action plan. Relevant information which could be made available to NPTs , eg, in daily tasking meetings, includes:.
Any risk identification and assessment information acquired by team members should be dealt with according to APP on information management. Some domestic abuse-related issues may require the preparation of a neighbourhood problem-solving plan, eg, if minority communities are identified as under-reporting domestic abuse. Where appropriate, NPTs should work with domestic abuse specialist officers and supervisors to assist with information gathering, enforcement issues, and developing risk action plans.
Where NPT officers are asked to visit victims, they should be fully briefed on the situation and purpose of the visit. Aggregated information relating to the prevalence of reporting of domestic abuse cases and the number of identified high-risk cases should also be considered for inclusion in neighbourhood profiles. The purpose of this profile is to record information about the neighbourhood and to assist the community engagement and collaborative process. Information relating to specific cases will not, however, be appropriate to include in any publicly available document.
Sanctuary schemes are victim-centred initiatives which are implemented to prevent homelessness by enabling victims of domestic abuse to remain in their own accommodation where:. Additional security can also be provided, eg, locks on windows and doors, gated security to the outside of a property, fire hammers, fire blankets, door viewers and emergency lighting. Sanctuary schemes are implemented by local authorities, in partnership with the police, the fire and rescue service and a specialist domestic abuse service, with support provided throughout the process.
The schemes are designed to meet the needs and circumstances of the individuals involved and should be fully integrated with local risk management processes. They are not appropriate or safe in all circumstances and are generally used in identified high-risk domestic abuse cases. For every referral made, a full risk assessment should be carried out by the police crime reduction unit and domestic abuse specialist officer.
Partner agencies should be consulted where appropriate. Addresses with sanctuary schemes installed should be clearly flagged on the IT systems of partner agencies, so that in the event of an emergency telephone call, it is clear that an immediate response will be necessary. The Sanctuary Scheme Installation Manual Mark Dowse, has been developed by the Metropolitan Police Service to set out the minimum technical specifications for the installation of a sanctuary safe room and associated security and fire safety measures.
It has obtained approval from Secured by Design. They are linked to a monitoring service or direct to the police. The system recognises the individual device and can provide associated victim details, even from a silent call. GPS technology identifies the location of the device. The device also usually has a facility to record the call and any nearby activity for evidential purposes.
Safety planning is a process by which the victim may consult appropriate agencies to discuss increasing personal safety and the safety of any children. It should form part of a partnership approach between professionals, victims and children and may include an assessment of the level of risk, developing a crisis plan and a plan for the future, both short and longer term.
Making a safety plan
The police have a role in helping to develop and support safety plans as part of their risk management processes. In general, the victim, with assistance from an IDVA or other independent advocacy service, should carry out the safety planning, with officers being able to contribute to the process by implementing safety measures as part of a risk management plan or action plan. Supervisors should ensure that during the safety planning process, officers consider and facilitate the use of traditional crime prevention and target-hardening measures locks, home security, mobile telephones and alarms and police watch schemes.
Domestic abuse specialist officers should act as police advisers to victims developing safety plans and, wherever possible, should do so in partnership with IDVAs or voluntary sector support groups. For further information on crime prevention see crime prevention strategies. Officers may need to consider taking steps to ensure firearms licences are revoked or not granted to perpetrators, in accordance with Home Office Guide on Firearms Licensing Law.
This is particularly important if the victim is residing at a refuge or in temporary accommodation. If there is a risk that the address may be disclosed in unrelated proceedings, eg, in civil recovery proceedings or benefits applications, this should be discussed as part of safety planning as it may be possible for a letter or statement to be provided highlighting this risk for the purposes of those proceedings.
Safety plans should use existing resources and protective factors to establish measures to protect victims and any children and reduce risk. Safety planning provides reassurance to victims and their children, while increasing their awareness of the specific risks associated with domestic abuse.
Many victims will already have safety planning measures in place. These plans can often be supported and developed by professional assistance. Voluntary sector groups and IDVAs have established expertise in carrying out safety planning with victims and others affected by domestic abuse.
Police officers should be available to advise on reducing risk and on additional safety measures that can be put in place by the victim, police and others eg, housing providers. It is essential to build on the safety measures developed by the victim, rather than insist on dramatic changes or make additional demands upon them.